Generative Conflict at Work

Our membership community brings together BIPOC leaders to support one another in developing conflict cultures that generate more possibility, greater connection, and fuller expression.

Become a member, today!

Transformation is overwhelming...

You're a compassionate leader who is responsible for getting your group to collaborate and live out it's mission.

You're trying to figure out how to get people to work together, establish (and maintain) a healthy group culture, and resolve conflicts in ways aligned with your liberatory values.

Doing all of this feels overwhelming - especially when you have competing priorities and everything feels urgent.

It's a lot of pressure and you're doing your best with what you have, but you still feel under-resourced in satisfying these responsibilities.

If you're looking for a way to...

❇️ get unstuck, our helpful members will do their best to answer your questions and connect you to valuable resources.

❇️ save time and energy, you'll have access to the proven tips, tools, and resources that our members have used to support collaboration, connection, and care among their team.

❇️ discover non-traditional paths forward, you'll be exposed to the radically imaginative ways people are building trust-based relationships, navigating conflict, and aligning their values with their actions.

❇️ feel less alone, you'll be connected to a network of peers who are here to celebrate your success, offer encouragement, and keep you accountable.

Then look no further! Our community is for you if...

❇️ you want to live in a world where everyone is safe, cared for, well-resourced, and thriving.

❇️ your work (volunteer or paid) contributes to the safety and well-being of your community.

❇️ you are committed to modeling the liberatory values you have for the world, and helping your people do the same.

❇️you want to create organizations and groups that aren't harmful to the people within them.

❇️ you're ready to connect with others and contribute to a community of mutual care.

We envision new possibilities.

We envision a world where people are treated like valued community members who know their time, talents, and perspective are appreciated. A world where people are able to do dignity affirming work that contributes to their well-being.


Being a part of the Loving Practice community was an incredibly powerful experience. I learned so much from the other participants and found myself reflecting on the points that were made during the sessions, long after they ended. - Kaitlyn C.

Our membership community is your space to ask for help, discuss the topics important to you, and connect with people navigating similar challenges.

Your membership includes:

  • Monthly Gatherings, where you'll discuss topics like power dynamics, creating communities of care, and navigating difference.
  • A private online forum, where you can share resources, ask questions, celebrate your wins, and connect between gatherings.
  • Hot Seats, where you can get focused help with your specific challenges and brainstorm solutions with the community.
  • Learning resources, where you can explore the tools and techniques for practicing generative conflict, communicating effectively, and nurturing collaboration.

Membership Plans

Once you join, you'll gain access to a network of peers, as well as regular events, a discussion forum, and learning resources.

It’s hard work transforming organizations from the inside-out, and fortunately, you don’t have to do it alone.

Annual*: $1,200 | Quarterly: $300 | Monthly: $100

*Membership plan discounts available to anyone who needs them. Contact hello@lovingpractice.com.


"As a result of the program, I feel more resourced and ready to identify and advocate for my needs." - Cat W.

Meet Kiana Gabrielle

Hello! I’m Kiana (they/she), the founder and community steward for Loving Practice. I’m also a movement worker and Black queer feminist scholar exploring how relationships are sites of liberation.

Throughout the past decade, I've been a operations and program professional within various movements, spanning racial and economic justice, climate justice, queer liberation, labor, and bodily autonomy.

Loving Practice came to be after a few negative experiences where poor conflict management in movement spaces led to harm for myself and members of my community. I was frustrated by how often organizations have anti-capitalist, justice-oriented values for the world and those values not showing up internally.

I am constantly inspired by the ways people come together to create change in their communities. Yet, I've seen how without a deliberate focus on nurturing healthy relationships, we risk perpetuating harm and undermining our collective movements.

As the steward for Loving Practice, it is my greatest pleasure to help you create the world you want to live in.


Frequently Asked Questions

How can I get my job to pay for this?

Your organization's ability to execute its vision and mission is reliant on the health of it's team. If you need help, here's a template you can follow to request professional development funds.

What are your community values?

Exploration: We recognize that this work is ever evolving and we are in deep exploration (and experimentation) around what’s possible.

Relationships: We recognize that liberation is created and experienced between people.

Learn more about our guiding principles.

How much time does this require?

The work of liberatory systems change requires an investment of time (probably more than you think). Our members tend to drop-in based on their interest in event topics, a desire to connect with others, or their need for resources/support.

What is expected of me as a member?

Our BETA cohort members have outlined the following expectations for how they want people showing up in the community:

  • Take ownership of your experience
  • Ask for what you need
  • Share resources abundantly and offer examples that people can learn from
  • Acknowledge that we all hold biases, that they will show up, and that we should be curious about them
  • Avoid giving unsolicited advice
  • Give people grace and leave room for the multitude of ways people will be coming into the space
  • Don’t share confidential/sensitive information outside of the group
  • Offer one another honest and constructive feedback when asked for it
  • Approach one another with curiosity and ask clarifying questions when needed
  • Do your best to communicate clearly and be direct with your asks

What's your refund policy?

Cancel your membership at anytime. You'll have 7 days after your most recent payment to receive a refund.

Have a different question? Email hello@lovingpractice.com, we'd be happy to help.

Bringing together community-oriented BIPOC leaders to support one another in developing practices that generate more possibility, greater connection, and fuller expression.

Become a member, today!